Besides our family and relatives, there must be someone who means so much to us. That is someone special to us. The Chinese have this saying as "They are our the other half."
Love is all based on the feelings....
Love...
deals with the heart...
It's like seeing rays of light in darkness when LOVE strikes
There are many girls out there,
good, nice and pretty ones....
But we will know when it's her
When the eyes meet the eyes, when the heart beats extraordinarily faster and pumps unusually stronger, when the body sweat unusually, when we have much to say, yet we turn speechless, when we want to see her face every seconds....
That's when love comes.
When love comes, we get unusually happy.....
When love comes, we feel nourished.....
When love comes, we feel on top of the world.....
When love comes, we feel that the world is ours....
Once you have found your Miss Right.... hold her hands tightly and never let her go....
hug her and warm her body with yours...
go all out to protect her...
kiss her on the cheek....
kiss her and tell her "I love you"...
When she kisses you back, she really loves you more than you can think...
So, tell her "I always love you, and I always will"...
Treasure her like an angel, because she is really the angel in your life...
Never forget to fulfill what you have promised to her....
because love is a lifelong promise...
Once you have found her, love her with all your heart and soul and care for her for the rest of your life.
And I will do exactly that, or perhaps more than that.
Many things are perceived to be true in this world. And yet, these things are not necessarily true. In fact, they are always not the truth. Or should I say, there is no clear-cut answer to an issue. Simply put, there is no such thing as absolute truth on earth.
But guess what, stereotype always comes into play. We tend to believe that what is perceived to be true is true. Subconsciously, we register that 'false truth' in our mind and confine ourselves to a limited frame of mind.
Stereotype...
Stereotype has got serious negative impacts to ourselves. Not only does it blunt our critical and analytical thinking, but it also makes us lose our self-opinions. When everyone around you tells you that you look bad, do you believe that you are so? When everyone around you says you are extremely stupid, do you believe them? Or put another way, should you believe them?
So, self-esteem plays a very important role here.
Thomas Edison made countless attempts and carried out thousands of experiments to make his first ever light bulb. And in the midst of the people's stereotype that he was not going to succeed, he succeeded.
Do not let the stereotype about something influence our own thinking. Often, we need to think and question an issue, or a theory. "Think out of the box" - much has been said about it. But little have we done to practise that.
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Another thing is about social stigma.
When we do something against the norm, we are labeled extraordinary. Even when someone does nothing wrong at all, he receives the social stigma. WE have stigma associated with HIV-positive patients and homosexuals. Hey, do you think those diagnosed HIV positive must have been sleeping around with many other people? Do you think the homosexuals purposely change their sexuality for fun?
Think about these questions. The society is a civilised society today. Should social stigma exist any longer?
Hopefully, starting from the youth today (me included la..haha), we will do our part to change this social stereotype and stigma. It has got to start from somebody. Why not you?
" ~I am listening to this song by Jay Chou >> 'Return to The Past' when writing this blog post. I do not intend to multi-task, but I am just looking for some sources of inspiration to blog. As suggested by the theme of my blog, "Inspiring", anything can be the inspiration in life. Haha...... Moreover, this might enhance the indescribable 'feeling' to blog about my thoughts and opinions. However, there's one drawback for sure - I would get distracted and may commit grammatical errors.....lolx.~
~Try reading my blog with the music~ "
Wow.....
Yeah!!
Exam is finally over! Finally, the stress is off for the moment.
We should feel very relaxed and happy. We should enjoy the feeling after exam, when we have the freedom to surf the net, chat online and play computer games until late at night. The most important point is that we do not need to worry about studying.
This is what many people normally feel the second right after they submit their answer sheets on the last day of exam.
Ironically, some of us feel 'hollow' after exam. We can do anything we enjoy doing, but we have nothing to do....
Is this the right attitude we should possess?
Is exam really that stressful?
Do we study for exam? I thought we should study for self-interest and knowledge? Which is right? I do not know....
It seems that I myself study for exam too... Many of us study only when exam is around the corner, and me included. And why is it that we feel the pressure and burden when we sit for exam? Why is it that our hearts always beat faster and stronger when we face exam?
"The purpose of exam is to gauge our understanding of a topic", we are told so. But, it happens to me that scoring good grades in exam does not mean you have fully understood a certain topic. Failing an exam doesn't mean you know nothing about a topic.
When there's exam, a marking scheme comes into play. When this transpires, rigidity in our education system happens. We have to write all the keywords in exam so as to ensure that we fulfill the criteria of getting an 'A' in a subject.
KEYWORDS....
English language is so wide. Do we have only one single or several words to describe a process, or a physiological reaction that takes place in our body?
What are we learning? Keywords? or knowledge?
I have no better solution in mind other than abolishing the exam marking scheme. And would that ever happen? That's a good question to ponder on.
Next, PRESSURE. Why do we feel so tensed up during exam? Why can't we take exam as a usual practice that we do in class? Is it because of the exam-oriented society? Is that because everything on earth seems to be in favour of those with high paper qualification?
Perhaps, it's our own fault. We ourselves placed so high priority in exam that we failed to bring the best out of us. Perhaps, we are the culprit of our own failure. We are the ones who know best.
We are always on high alert if there's any enemy around. But we failed to identify the biggest enemy in us. Recognising and overcoming our inner 'enemy' takes tremendous amount of effort. But it can be achieved if we set our heart and soul to attain it! Napoleon Hill once said, "Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve."
It's not that we are not capable of doing something. It's just that some might take longer time to complete the same task. Believe in ourselves. Forget about the pressure when we do anything. Just do our best and leave the rest to our God. It's never easy to do this, but it is not impossible. A simplified version of Napoleon's saying, "When we believe, we can achieve."
I see myself as an optimistic, sunshine guy always in pursuit of big, big dreams. Active, outgoing and always cheerful. I start to believe in miracles. No matter what, life goes on and I keep moving. Welcome to my blog!
